This Father Just DESTROYED Society’s Definition Of Beauty. This Is Perfect.

This Father Just DESTROYED Society’s Definition Of Beauty. This Is Perfect.

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This Father Just DESTROYED Society’s Definition Of Beauty. This Is Perfect.
Dr. Kelly Flanagan, a licensed clinical psychologist and happy father of three, keeps a fantastic blog, full of wonderful opinions and personal advice. He has made a habit out of writing letters to his young daughter, to help teach her about the world. But not only his daughter could benefit from reading his wise words. […]

Dr. Kelly Flanagan, a licensed clinical psychologist and happy father of three, keeps a fantastic blog, full of wonderful opinions and personal advice. He has made a habit out of writing letters to his young daughter, to help teach her about the world. But not only his daughter could benefit from reading his wise words. Check out what he had to say about the make-up and fashion industry. They are great words to live by. Dear Little One, As I write this, I’m sitting in the makeup aisle of our local Target store. A friend recently texted me from a different makeup aisle and told me it felt like one of the most oppressive places in the world. I wanted to find out what he meant.

And now that I’m sitting here, I’m beginning to agree with him. Words have power, and the words on display in this aisle have a deep power. Words and phrases like: Affordably gorgeous, Infallible, Flawless finish, Brilliant strength, Liquid power, Go nude, Age defying, Instant age rewind, Choose your dream, Nearly naked, and Natural beauty. When you have a daughter you start to realize she’s just as strong as everyone else in the house—a force to be reckoned with, a soul on fire with the same life and gifts and passions as any man. But sitting in this store aisle, you also begin to realize most people won’t see her that way. They’ll see her as a pretty face and a body to enjoy. And they’ll tell her she has to look a certain way to have any worth or influence. But words do have power and maybe, just maybe, the words of a father can begin to compete with the words of the world. Maybe a father’s words can deliver his daughter through this gauntlet of institutionalized shame and into a deep, unshakeable sense of her own worthiness and beauty. A father’s words aren’t different words, but they are words with a radically different meaning: Brilliant strength. May your strength be not in your fingernails but in your heart. May you discern in your center who you are, and then may you fearfully but tenaciously live it out in the world. Choose your dream. But not from a department store shelf. Find the still-quiet place within you. A real dream has been planted there. Discover what you want to do in the world. And when you have chosen, may you faithfully pursue it, with integrity and with hope. Naked. The world wants you to take your clothes off. Please keep them on. But take your gloves off. Pull no punches. Say what is in your heart. Be vulnerable. Embrace risk. Love a world that barely knows what it means to love itself. Do so nakedly. Openly. With abandon. Infallible. May you be constantly, infallibly aware that infallibility doesn’t exist. It’s an illusion created by people interested in your wallet. If you choose to seek perfection, may it be in an infallible grace—for yourself, and for everyone around you. Age defying. Your skin will wrinkle and your youth will fade, but your soul is ageless. It will always know how to play and how to enjoy and how to revel in this one-chance life. May you always defiantly resist the aging of your spirit. Flawless finish. Your finish has nothing to do with how your face looks today and everything to do with how your life looks on your last day. May your years be a preparation for that day. May you be aged by grace, may you grow in wisdom, and may your love become big enough to embrace all people. May your flawless finish be a peaceful embrace of the end and the unknown that follows, and may it thus be a gift to everyone who cherishes you. Little One, you love everything pink and frilly and I will surely understand if someday makeup is important to you. But I pray three words will remain more important to you—the last three words you say every night, when I ask the question: “Where are you the most beautiful?” Three words so bright no concealer can cover them. Where are you the most beautiful? On the inside. From my heart to yours, Daddy To see more of Dr. Flanagan’s writings, check out his blog. This man has a good head on his shoulders, more of us could stand to have his kind of good sense. Kelly Flanagan also has a free ebook out, called The Marriage Manifesto: Turning Your World Upside Down. If you like what he wrote in this letter, you should probably check it out. Source: Dr. Kelly Flanagan Share the doctor’s incredible words by clicking the button below.

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8 Disgusting Facts About Ancient Rome That Will Make You Nauseous

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8 Disgusting Facts About Ancient Rome That Will Make You Nauseous
googletag.cmd.push(function() { googletag.display(‘VN_PG_DTBT_ATF’); }); Ancient Rome was a pretty amazing place. Between 753 BC and 476 AD, Romans were among the most technologically and culturally advanced people on Earth. Despite them forming the basis of modern society, Romans held a number of pretty insane beliefs and practices, at least by today’s standards. Here are a […]

The Only Thing More Beautiful Than Their Life Together Was Their Death Together.

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The Only Thing More Beautiful Than Their Life Together Was Their Death Together.
Jerry and Edith Dunn were a completely devoted couple for 63 years. They were born in the same year (1931), met in high school and were together ever since. They weren’t flowery or wildly romantic, but the connection they had was permanent. They were soul mates. Jerry and Edith spent 63 blissful years together. They […]

This Dog Is All Of Us When We Don’t Want To Go To The Gym

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This Dog Is All Of Us When We Don’t Want To Go To The Gym
Finding the motivation to go to the gym every week can be pretty much impossible. If you’re like me, you pretty much wake up exhausted and by day’s end, it only goes downhill from there. More often than not, I skip leg day altogether and find myself trying to find other healthy alternatives to make […]

Why Would A Gay Teenager Commit Hate Crimes Against Herself?

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Why Would A Gay Teenager Commit Hate Crimes Against Herself?
Ten years ago, a liberal San Francisco suburb was traumatized by a rash of hate crimes against a 17-year-old lesbian. But when it was revealed that the victim herself had staged the attacks, the entire community turned on her and she never spoke about the incidents publicly. Until now. View this image › Illustration by […]

She Never Knew Something So Seemingly Hopeless Could Turn Into Such Beauty

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She Never Knew Something So Seemingly Hopeless Could Turn Into Such Beauty
In Greek mythology, the Phoenix is known for creating new life out of the ashes from its previous death. So when one woman raised a nearly dead fish back to perfect health, she new exactly what to name him. The amazing story of Phoenix the Siamese fighting fish (a.k.a. a betta fish) will inspire you […]

This Reporter Didn’t Want To Do This TV Segment. It’s A REALLY Good Thing She Did.

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This Reporter Didn’t Want To Do This TV Segment. It’s A REALLY Good Thing She Did.
A cancer diagnosis is always a surprise. When ABC anchor Amy Robachs was asked to go get a mammogram for a TV segment, she was hesitant. She’d been putting off the procedure herself because of her busy schedule. She finally agreed… and it’s a good thing she did, because it saved a life. Her own. […]

6 Questions Lots Of People Disagree With Scientists About

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6 Questions Lots Of People Disagree With Scientists About
Most people support science overall. But there are some topics it seems we’ll never agree on. A poll of 2,002 adults released by Pew Research Center yesterday revealed that the American public, in general, support science and think it has made their lives easier. But despite this, the opinions of scientists and the rest of […]

Come back to Delhi immediately: LG Najeeb Jung to Manish Sisodia – Times of India

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Come back to Delhi immediately: LG Najeeb Jung to Manish Sisodia – Times of India
Manish Sisodia has drawn a lot of flak in the past few days for "holidaying" in Finland while Delhi is grappling with a health hazard — chikungunya and dengue outbreak. And now, according to Times Now, LG Najeeb Jung has issued a verbal order and summoned Manish Sisodia back to Delhi immediately. Read more: http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/Come-back-to-Delhi-immediately-LG-Najeeb-Jung-to-Manish-Sisodia/articleshow/54369567.cms

These Topiary Creations Will Make Your Green Thumb Start To Itch.

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These Topiary Creations Will Make Your Green Thumb Start To Itch.
Gardening gets a bad rap as a tedious, boring recreation usually preferred by those entering their retirement phase of life. But the beauty of nature is something that should be appreciated by everyone! And these examples top notch topiary will convince you that there’s more to gardening than sunhats and weed pulling.  Take a look at these […]

He Grabbed Some Paint And Action Figures. What He Created With Them Is Incredible.

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He Grabbed Some Paint And Action Figures. What He Created With Them Is Incredible.
When it comes to mass-produced action figures, they can only resemble the character or actor they’re modeled after so much. While some definitely share a resemblance to the real person, none can compare to this man’s creations. Noel Cruz is a Filipino artist working in the U.S. who repaints dolls, transforming them into stunning works […]

These Disturbing Movies Have Some Even More Disturbing, And True, Stories Behind Them

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These Disturbing Movies Have Some Even More Disturbing, And True, Stories Behind Them
It’s spooky enough to learn that your favorite horror movies are based on urban legends, which might have a grain or two of truth behind them. Those kinds of movies make you start looking behind you in the dark and jumping when the phone rings. But there’s no real proof behind any of those legends. […]

Most People Wouldn’t Care About A Little Goldfish… But Not This Family.

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Most People Wouldn’t Care About A Little Goldfish… But Not This Family.
When your beloved pet—your pseudo child—gets sick, you’ll do just about anything to make it better. If it’s an emergency trip to the pet hospital, or surgery that costs thousands of dollars, there’s nothing you wouldn’t do for your furry friend. Usually this means saving the family dog, or even a cherished house cat. But […]

This Rare Beauty Is Named Sapphire

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This Rare Beauty Is Named Sapphire
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He Walked Into This Hospital With A Guitar, And You’ll Melt When You See Why

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He Walked Into This Hospital With A Guitar, And You’ll Melt When You See Why
You’d be hard-pressed to find anyone who has never felt the emotional impact of music. Although this is a sensation we’ve all experienced, music therapy is often the subject of scorn from both mental health professionals and the general public. Even if you aren’t particularly moved by what’s on the radio these days, researchers have […]

Farmer’s Daughter 20% Vitamin C Lotion with Hyaluronic Acid (1 oz) Best Acne Scar Removal, Anti Aging Cream, Wrinkle Remover, Face Moisturizer for Age Spots, Fine Lines, 100% Natural Skin Care Product

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Farmer’s Daughter 20% Vitamin C Lotion with Hyaluronic Acid (1 oz) Best Acne Scar Removal, Anti Aging Cream, Wrinkle Remover, Face Moisturizer for Age Spots, Fine Lines, 100% Natural Skin Care Product
HAS TOO MUCH FUN IN THE SUN CAUSED YOU TO LOOK OLDER THAN YOU REALLY ARE? Remember those times we promised to use sunblock, but didn’t? Or when we meant to use moisturizer, but didn’t?Now we look in the mirror and there it is – that darn sun damage! Those little signs of aging that […]
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